My friend and fellow writer Suzanne Grossman posted a great piece on The Huffington Post today, called “Just a Temp?” It’s a great reminder that it’s okay to stop achieving for a while and accept that our careers and lives go through natural ups, downs and transitions.
Here is the beginning of the article:
The word that sums up New York is “achieve,” says Elizabeth Gilbert in Eat, Pray, Love. This is based on her Italian friend’s theory that every city has one word that describes the thoughts of most of its inhabitants. (Rome’s is sex, her friend says.) I think most busy, on-the-go New Yorkers would agree that achieve, a verb, describes us to a T. Is it possible to live in this city and step outside of achieve? These have been my thoughts ever since I left my job at the end of last summer and became a temp.
At 33, I have achieved quite a lot. I’ve had many successful jobs and worked my way up to increasingly fancier titles. I went from being an intern to having interns. I’m one of the founders of a nonprofit for girls and music, and I’ve achieved a healthy amount of satisfaction with my own music playing. When I became unemployed in August, I asked myself what I was doing back at a place I thought I had left behind in my early 20s — the great unknown. Instead of feeling bad about it, as I did back then, I decided to flirt with “unachieve” for awhile, standing still, being no one in particular, doing nothing in particular that would define me during this period of growth and transition. I started to tell people I was “in between” and that has suited me surprisingly well…
Read the full article here.
